Category: Mature/Adult Content

I Did a Bad, Bad Thing, Part III.

[Part 3 of a series. You should read Part 1 and Part 2 first.] “What’s the matter?” Vince feigned, as Jer stumbled into the room clutching a little piece of white paper and a...

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Sex Gets Better with Age I: Learning to Pack Lighter

Sex Gets Better with Age I: Learning to Pack Lighter

I suppose that I had should say something about what I mean by “better” in terms of sex getting better. By “better” I mean sex that is more comfortable, more satisfying, more exciting, and more fulfilling. I mean the “laying-on-the-bed-with-slitty-eyes-incapable-of-saying-anything-but, ‘Whoa … Babe …’ every-few-minutes-while-recovering” kind of sex, sex so good that you feel like you should high five after it, sex that needs no excuses but demands a recap and a cigarette, sex where the sex you crave is the sex you have rather than the sex you only imagine.

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Sex Gets Better With Age II: O … God.

Sex Gets Better With Age II: O … God.

It takes a while to start to shed this kind of sexual baggage and to feel like it’s permissible to really enjoy sex with a partner as sex and not as a means to something else. It takes time, but age teaches you that sex can be an end in and of itself.

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Sex Gets Better With Age III: The Unrated Version

Sex Gets Better With Age III: The Unrated Version

And it also occurs to me that lists are one of the hallmarks of the sexual baggage that people have and develop when they are younger. How many of you have made an actual or mental list of the following in the course of you sex life, and used them to gage whether you should feel good, or not so good, about it:

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College Angst and the Cult of Virginity, Part I.

Nobody runs down on the wedding night with a sheet, points to a wet spot and shrieks, “Look! She just touched it and it went off like a Roman Candle! He’s a VIRGIN!” No, nobody does that. Nobody promises women that if they martyr themselves for a cause they will be rewarded with seventy male virgins every day in heaven, because, for women, that would be hell

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